No Room at the Inn

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David.He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.  – Luke 2:1-7

Firefighters rushing into our home. Scary sight for us.

What happens when you’re suddenly homeless?

We all need a place to call home.  A home provides protection from the weather, a place to rest in relative safety, and a retreat from the outside world.  But a home is more than that.  A home is an anchor.  A home gives us a sense of security.  It is a place we make our own.  Think about your own home for a moment.  Imagine your favorite place to sit.  Think about the comfort of your bed.  Picture in your mind the inside of your refrigerator and where you keep your favorite things to eat.  Now imagine all of that suddenly GONE.  That’s what happened to my family about six years ago.  We were living in Dinuba at the time serving two smaller churches in that quaint, rural town.  One Sunday after worship while I was cooking in the kitchen, the oil in the pan burst into flame!  Without realizing it, I had left the burner on high for too long in a shallow pan and it suddenly caught on fire.  I tried turning off the stove or just moving the pan off the burner, but the flames kept attacking me like they were alive.  I couldn’t get close enough without risking getting burned.  I immediately opened the doors under the sink to grab the fire extinguisher, but in just those few seconds the flames had risen high enough to catch the wooden cabinets next to the stove and they caught on fire.  The flames raced toward the ceiling and I knew it was moving too fast for me to stop it.  Instead, I shouted out to Emma to get out of the house.  I opened the back door for the dogs and rushed to Emma’s room to make sure she was safe outside.  I went back inside, got my lockbox with our passports, and a watch Cassie gave me for my birthday a few years ago and threw them on the lawn.  Then I asked Emma what her favorite stuffed animals were and grabbed what I could.  But as I was leaving the house that second time, I knew I couldn’t go back in.  The smoke, if you could call it that since it looked black as tar, had come down to head level and already I was having trouble breathing. I could hear a loud CRACK and something exploding which later I found out was the microwave.  And within the space of five minutes, we went from having a home to not having a home. That’s how quick you can go from having a home to being homeless.  Five minutes.

Damage after the fire. Most of the damage was actually smoke damage since the walls had asbestos and got everywhere.  Emma lost almost everything.  They had to throw out nearly everything since it had asbestos.

It’s scary to think about how many people are homeless in America today.

According to reports from 2016, more than half a MILLION people are looking for a place to sleep every night.[1]  What is more sad is about 138,000 of them are children.  And that is just a very woeful underestimate of the overall problem.  When you include children living in other people’s homes, waiting for foster care placement, living in cars, parks, and bus stations, the number rises to about a MILLION homeless children.[2]  By far the leading cause of homelessness among women is domestic violence.  About 90% of homeless women are escaping from physical and/or sexual abuse.[3]  And it’s a mistake to believe that most homeless people are suffering from mental illness.  While it’s true that the proportion of mental illness among homeless people is about 3 or 4 times that of the general population, still about 75-80% of homeless people are just like me and you – normal, everyday people caught up in extraordinary circumstances.[4]  Our neighborhood suffers from some of the highest concentration of homelessness in America.  In the past two years, the number of homeless in Berkeley shot up 13% which is far better than the 30% increase in San Francisco and the 47% increase in Oakland.[5]  Needless to say, the situation is pretty bad.  California already has nearly a quarter of all homeless people in America, by far the most of any other state.[6]   High rent, mortgage foreclosures, and lack of affordable housing are just some of the causes of this epidemic.  And while we attempt to bandage up the problem, we seem to be doing little to address the root cause.  It’s thanks to the Women’s Daytime Drop-In Center and places like it that seek to find solutions to this crisis that we have hope for one day finding a solution.  But we all need to help in some way.

But homelessness is hardly an American problem.

As bad as it is here, I cannot even imagine what it’s like in places like Syria where over 12 million people are refugees either inside or outside of the country.  According to WorldVision, 6.7 million refugees fled Syria while 6.2 million are displaced inside the country, effectively homeless, but more than that they are often without food, medical care, or even drinkable water.[7]  They estimate that nearly 70% live on less than $1.90 a day, 95% lack healthcare, and 70% don’t have access to clean water.  Children are being especially harmed.  Not only are they subject to disease and malnutrition, but instead of going to school they are being forced to work demeaning or dangerous jobs for little pay.  Some are forced into the war.  Nearly 40% of school-age children don’t go to school, either because they are working, forced to serve in the war, or because their schools have been destroyed or hijacked by military groups or refugees.  And yet, our of our fear, out of our lack of faith, countries all over the world are limiting the number of refugees they are willing to help out including our own.  The United States used to be a world leader in refugee resettlement.  We used to help more refugees than all other countries combined and did so for decades.[8]  Since 2017, our refugee resettlement rate has dropped drastically. In that entire time, nearly three years, we’ve admitted fewer refugees than we did in 2016 alone.  For the first time in decades, we no longer lead the world in resettlement and will drop our numbers to an all-time low of 18,000.  This is amidst a crisis that is only growing year-by-year.  We’ve told the world, “There’s no room at the inn.”

Image thanks to WorldVision

Fear has gripped the world.

Fear of the other.  Fear of something different.  Fear of the unknown.  Fear of change.  These are not new fears.  These are fears we fight with every day and not just on an international scale, but on a personal one, too.  Fear is the lynchpin of evil.  It drives many of us to do irrational and harmful things to one another.  It creates an atmosphere of anger and rage.  It causes separation from God and division among communities of people. And it seems to be growing under the banner of nationalism.  So much hatred of “the other.”  It is the exact opposite of what Christ challenges us to do – to love others.  One of the apostles, Luke, records Christ sharing these thoughts, “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. (Luke 6:32-36).”  We are not meant to only love the people who love us.  We are not meant to only do good to those who first do good to us.  And we are not supposed to expect payment for services rendered, but instead do it out of mercy and love.  With the world in crisis, how can we call ourselves Christians if we don’t do something about it?

We are sometimes so sheltered from suffering we don’t realize how deep the need is.

Trevor Noah became host of The Daily Show after Jon Stewart left with Jon’s blessings, and Trevor tells the story about how they had to force him to move into Jon’s office.  He said he was really happy with the little office he had been given.  It was simple.  There was a little brown desk with a skylight and he was good with it.  But (I assume the producers) wanted him to move into Jon’s office which had exposed brick but he was not a fan of exposed brick.  He said, “Exposed brick is a classic example of privilege in my world, because coming from South Africa (coming from any poor country to be honest) exposed brick displays that you do not have the ability to plaster your walls and paint them.  You don’t have enough money to do that.  So all we had growing up was exposed brick.  And then you move to a place that says, ‘We have so much plaster and so much paint, in order for me to be different I’m going to expose the bricks in my walls.’ And everyone says, ‘That is so fantastic! I will pay more for that.’ (Listen to the full insightful and funny podcast)  We are fortunate NOT to know the hardships of long-term homelessness.  Even for our family, that short bit of time where we lost almost everything we had, we had enough resources to recover, and even still it’s something that haunts us to this day.  It’s hard to imagine having that BE your existence, and what kind of lifelong impact that has on a young child and a family.  For millions of people around the world it is the reality they are living.  How can we expect the world to know the love of God when they struggle with simply existing?  But it is also an opportunity for us to show the love of God to a world that is hurting.  There are so many ways to help.  Not only are we supporting the Women’s Daytime Drop-In Center during the Advent season, but there are numerous organizations all across the Bay Area from Ruby’s Place in Castro Valley, to Back on My Feet in the City, to the Berkeley Food and Housing Project right here in town.  We’ve listed some of these here and below, but there are so many more.  No matter how you choose to give to this crisis – whether it is with your time, talent, gifts, service, or witness – find your own way and your own means to help.  Because Mary and Joseph aren’t the only ones without a room during this Advent season.

Places to Give Your Time, Gifts, and Service





[3] Ibid.

[4] Ibid.





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