Craig’s Library – Making Sense of the Bible Makes a Lot of Sense (book review)

Adam Hamilton is turning out to be one of the clearest voices for compassion and reason within the church today.  He often tackles tough subjects with aplomb and sensitivity.  In his book, Making Sense of the Bible, Hamilton helps us look at the Bible in light of the 21st century.  Too often churches don’t bother to tackle the tough issues of the Bible or explore what it really has to say.  But in this book, Adam isn’t afraid to go there.

The cover for Adam Hamilton's book about tough questions from the Bible
The cover for Adam Hamilton’s book about tough questions from the Bible

Some of the topics that he addresses are things like science and creation; the violence of God in the Old Testament; homosexuality; and the reliability of the Bible.  He offers well-reasoned arguments for his thoughts on the subject but always with enough grace to make his words easy to read for even the staunchest of opponents.  What I love about this book is that it offers Biblically-based answers to questions people ask who are not part of the church.  Often these are the things they wrestle with that keep them from joining any faith community.

Love these chapters Hamilton adds to summarize what we read in Scripture
Love these chapters Hamilton adds to summarize what we read in Scripture

He also goes into depth about the Bible itself – how it was put together, which books made it in, and two of my favorite chapters, the Old and New Testaments in Fifteen Minutes.  He clears up for many some of the complexities about the Bible and helps both long-time church-goers and people exploring their faith for the first time to take a nice, long look at what we consider to be the most Holy book in Christianity.  There are many misconceptions about the Bible, about what it says, and about how it is interpreted.  Hamilton offers a compelling way to look at it that is grounded in sound theology AND a pastor’s heart.

I also appreciate the humble way he approaches the topic.  In the introduction he writes, “Am I right in everything I say in this book? I’m certain I’m not.  But the book is an attempt to honestly wrestle with the difficult questions often raised by thoughtful Christians and non-Christians concerning things taught in the Bible (p.5).”  His examples come from a wide range of experiences.  He talks about everyday people who have challenged his own perceptions of Scripture and admits that he too wrestles with its words.  Reading it, I found myself nodding my head so often, hearing my own questions being addressed.

Critical praise for Hamilton's book and writing from a spectrum of different people
Critical praise for Hamilton’s book and writing from a spectrum of different people

Making Sense of the Bible is a great book to base a sermon series on or for an indepth group study together.

Title: Making Sense of the Bible
Author: Adam Hamilton
Cost: $21.99
Age: Adult
Publisher: Harper One
Genre: Bible / Spiritual Growth

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The Big Bang Theory of God

How did they feed the animals on Noah’s ark?

I can’t help it.  I have questions.  I love a good story as much as the next person, but when something doesn’t make sense, it bothers me and the story of Noah’s ark always left me with some doozies.  Like this one.  How did they feed the animals on Noah’s ark?  Most of us believe Noah and his family (and all the animals) were on the ark for 40 days and 40 nights, but according to the Bible it was actually about 370 days in total.[1]  That is a LONG time to be trapped on a boat full of every animal known to humanity.  The smell must have been horrible.  But I have more questions.  Did they really have enough space for two of every animal?  How did they deal with the problem of genetic inbreeding?  How did Noah and his family stop the animals from eating each other?  Who “cleaned up” after them?  It’s these kinds of questions that drive a wedge between science and religion.  We have grown to believe the two are somehow incompatible.  That to believe in one means a person couldn’t logically believe in the other.  That unless people who believe in the Biblical story of creation can answer these questions, then it must not be true.  Well, I think I found an answer to at least one of those questions and it came from the TV show, The Big Bang Theory.  Sheldon’s mother, Mary is in town to see her son get an award for a scientific paper he wrote.  Mary (a devout Christian) tells her son (a self-avowed atheist) that she couldn’t quite understand what it was he was trying to explain, and he told her, “It describes a new model of the universe that conceptualizes it as an ‘N’-dimensional super fluid.”  And she responds, “Interesting. You can believe that, but God filling an ark with animals two-by-two is nonsense.” Sheldon’s derision is almost palpable as he asks, “What did they feed the lions mother?”  And Mary, sharp as a tack responds, “The floating bodies of drowned sinners.”  Score one for Mary.

The debate between creation and evolution has gone on ever since Darwin.

And it’s still one that goes on today.  You might find it surprising to know that most people believe God had a hand in creation.  Seventy-eight percent of people believe God has a hand in the creation of human beings. 78%! And of that 78%, over half believe God created human beings as fully formed people free of evolution.  According to a Gallup poll cited in Adam Hamilton’s book Making Sense of the Bible the numbers break down like this: 46% of Americans believe people were created by God without evolution, 32% believe human beings evolved by God’s guiding hand, and only 15% believe that evolution alone accounts for the development of humanity.[2]  But even though most people believe God had a hand in human development, we have a number of different theories on how that came to be.  On one end of the spectrum, Young Earth Creationists believe in a literal interpretation of the Bible and date the Earth as only 6,000 years old.  They use the genealogies in the Bible to help come up with that number.  On the other side are those who believe in theistic evolution.  And as the name implies, they believe that evolution is a tool that God used to develop human beings.  This group generally accepts the scientific theory that the Earth is about 4.57 billion years old and that humanity evolved over the last 2 million years.[3]  For them, evolution and Scripture are in harmony with one another, and what we read in the Bible isn’t inaccurate but just wasn’t made to be taken literally in how we understand time and creation. 

The vast majority of Americans believe God had a hand in creation

But why is there this divide in the first place?

Today it seems as if this rift has been around forever, but that hasn’t always been the case. The church has always been a supporter of knowledge and had in the past been unafraid of education.  They were among the first to support the university system.  They often funded and founded colleges and universities around the world.  Some of the most famous schools in our country where many noted scientists, doctors, mathematicians, and scholars have come from were established by the church.  In fact, some of the greatest scientists in the world have been Christian – Copernicus, Galileo, Pascal, Newton, Faraday, Pasteur, and Kelvin just to name a few.[4] Today, Francis Collins, “a renowned geneticist and former director of the Human Genome Project,” even developed an organization he calls the BioLogos Foundation to bridge the gap between science and religion and to help people realize that neither one is a threat to the other.[5]  So where is this debate largely coming from?  From Christians more than anyone else. 

From L to R: Isaac Newton, Copernicus, Louis Pasteur, and Galileo

For Christians, this isn’t just a matter of historical accuracy, but a test of their faith.

The debate about the authenticity of the creationist point of view has more at stake than bragging rights about who’s right.  It’s about trusting in the Word of God.  And as science continues to uncover more about the origins of the world, there are Christians who fear hearing these new ideas.  They are afraid the evidence being presented will contradict the beliefs they’ve held their entire lives, and they forcefully push back against it.  But as we will see, perhaps the premise we have started out with is faulty at its root.  In Genesis 2, we read a more personal story about God’s active hand in creation and how he formed the world.  Then he flooded the earth with water to create the land and the sea and after that created us.  And in that passage, it wasn’t until he created man that he finished the rest of creation.  After he molded man out of the earth, God created trees and flowers and rivers and animals and even involved man in the naming of the animals.  And only then did God create woman.  But within the Bible itself there rests a contradiction to this narrative.  In the chapter right before this one, the Bible has a distinctly different account of creation.

And God said, “Let there be a vault between the waters to separate water from water.” So God made the vault and separated the water under the vault from the water above it. And it was so. God called the vault “sky.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the second day.

9 And God said, “Let the water under the sky be gathered to one place, and let dry ground appear.” And it was so. 10 God called the dry ground “land,” and the gathered waters he called “seas.” And God saw that it was good.

11 Then God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so. 12 The land produced vegetation: plants bearing seed according to their kinds and trees bearing fruit with seed in it according to their kinds. And God saw that it was good. 13 And there was evening, and there was morning—the third day. – Genesis 1:6-13

That was only the third day of creation.

Do you remember when humanity was created?  The sixth day.  It wasn’t until the end of the week that God created both male and female in his image.  Before that he created the heavens and the earth, the land and the water, the plants and the animals.  In this version of creation, humanity was the last thing to have been created – but in the very next chapter we find out that man was created not long after the earth was formed and BEFORE all the plants and animals.  Both of them can’t be right.  These two stories directly contradict one another, and they are right there at the very beginning of the Bible! Either humanity was created before or after the plants and animals, but it can’t be both.  And don’t get me started on talking snakes.  When you really examine these stories, it becomes harder and harder to defend a literal point of view.  But maybe we don’t need to.  Maybe we should focus on what God is trying to tell us instead of worrying about the details.

One of my favorite movies of the year was The Six Triple Eight.

It’s a film based on the true story of the first and only all-Black and all-female battalion stationed in Europe during World War II.  I highly recommend it.  It is a story of faith and grit and perseverance that will move you to tears and give you hope in the human condition.  You’ll watch it and think, “I can’t believe this is true!”  But it is. Now, is everything true?  Is every last detail as it actually happened when Captain Charity Adams was in charge of the Six Triple Eight?  Of course not.  You all know how it is.  “Based on a true story” means only that.  Some parts are highlighted, some parts are deleted, and some parts are changed to make the story cohesive.  But did you walk away from it with a better understanding of the monumental accomplishment these women performed?  Yes, you did.  Did you get a better idea of the racism and sexism and poor living conditions they had to suffer through and overcome just to serve their country?  Yes, you did.  Did the fact that not everything was exactly the way it happened in real life detract from the film?  Not at all. Now, if you sat there with a fine-tooth comb and picked it apart, you’d find those inconsistencies.  But if you’re focusing on the nitty gritty, you’re missing the point.  You’re losing the forest for the trees.  The Bible is many things, but it’s not a history book.  Paul shares with us very clearly what it is supposed to be, “For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope (Romans 15:4).”  Don’t lose the forest for the trees.  Use your eyes and ears to understand what God is trying to tell you.

The viral video that taught us all about Noah’s Ark! – Elementary, My Dear (Schoolhouse Rock)

Long ago, I came to the conclusion it just doesn’t matter how the Earth was created.

I believe God is the ultimate creator and I believe he created the Earth and everything in it.  How he did it?  I don’t care. Because it’s not important.  If he chose to do it through evolution, great!  If he spontaneously created everything all at once, great!  How God did it doesn’t change my faith in him, and I hope it doesn’t change yours either. The Bible is our own understanding of the story of God and the bottom line is this.  Love God, love one another.  If we could hold on to those truths and stop arguing about the rest, we could possibly become the kind of people God keeps hoping we will be someday. Remember, it isn’t about history. It’s about His story. 


[1] Some say 371 but close enough. https://www.gotquestions.org/how-long-was-Noah-on-the-ark.html  This site says around 450 days: https://ncse.ngo/yes-noahs-flood-may-have-happened-not-over-whole-earth Regardless, it was a really long time!

[2] Adam Hamilton, Making Sense of the Bible, p. 188.

[3] Notes on Young Earth Creationists and evolution come from Hamilton’s boo

[4] https://carm.org/is-christianity-anti-science

[5] http://content.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1895284,00.html Also, https://biologos.org/

If It Wasn’t For Mom…

Where would we be without our moms?

Nowhere.  Even if you didn’t have the best mom, you could at least say one thing – she brought me into this world.  That alone should be an accomplishment worthy of recognition.  Giving life to a child, enduring not only labor but the nine months leading up to it is a sacrifice we don’t often appreciate as much as we should.  I know our moms do it out of love, but still, it’s a pretty amazing sacrifice.  Now the truth is, most of us believe we have the best mom or at least right up there in the top 10.  Just for putting up with me alone, my mom deserves top 5 status.  Growing up I thought I knew everything, but I look back now and wonder how my mom didn’t strangle me on a daily basis.  I guess I can credit that to a mother’s love, too.  And it is amazing how most parents seem to have a never-ending supply of it.  Having more kids doesn’t deplete the well.  Instead, the well just grows bigger.  In that way, our love for our children mirrors God’s love for us.  Just as God is our parent in Heaven, so our parents share that same love with us. It’s the strongest kind of love there is. 

If you look in the Bible, you see so many examples of this type of motherly love.

In Genesis we see Jochebed, the mother of Moses not only giving up her child for the chance for him to live, but then purposely making herself a servant in the princess’ household so she could be with him.  Naomi loved her two daughters-in-law so much, she released them from their duty to her when her sons died tragically, even though it meant she would likely live in poverty for the rest of her life.  She knew their best chance was to abandon her and she wanted what was best for their lives over her own.  Then there’s the story about the woman in King Solomon’s court.  Her child was stolen from her by a jealous and bitter woman whose own baby passed away in the night.  Without a clear way to tell who was lying, King Solomon tried something tricky and offered to settle their dispute by sacrificing the child so that neither one could have him.  The mother instantly said she would give up her claim if only the king would allow the baby to live.  And in the New Testament we hear the story of the Canaanite woman who comes before Jesus, crying out for mercy.  Her daughter is suffering, and she comes begging for help.  Eventually, Jesus recognizes this woman’s great faith and takes mercy on her, curing her daughter.  All of these mother’s stories have a similar theme – self-sacrifice.  They were willing to sacrifice their own security, happiness, or well-being for the sake of their children. 

Jochebed, mother of Moses on the left; Ruth and Naomi on the right

Mary was the same way.

Mary had a lot to lose becoming the mother of Jesus.  We look back now and see what an amazing honor it was to be chosen for this role, but back then there was a lot at stake.  Right before Mary is pregnant, we read that Mary’s cousin, Elizabeth, was also pregnant, itself a miracle considering Elizabeth’s advanced age. But God had graced Elizabeth with a son, and she would soon give birth to the man we know as John the Baptist.  Mary, however, had no immediate plans to be pregnant.  So, everything that’s about to happen is going to come as a big surprise. 

26 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”

29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”

34 “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”

35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.”

38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her. – Luke 1:26-38

This would have been a tremendous burden for Mary.

To be willing to carry a child that was not from her husband would be a disgrace in the eyes of the community.  And since they had never been together, Joseph would know it was not his child and would have every reason to leave her, and from Matthew’s version of the story, Joseph originally intended to do exactly that but was convinced to stay by an angel of the Lord.  Still Mary couldn’t count on an angel to come and intervene.  If Joseph had left her, it was likely she never would have been married.  Because of the society they lived in, she would probably have been destitute and would need to rely on the mercy of others to provide her with food and clothing.  Her life as she knew it would take a drastic turn for the worse.  But she accepted her role with grace and trusted in God to make everything right. That’s what makes this story so amazing.  She was willing to sacrifice so much for this child and her faith in God.    

Mary pregnant with Jesus

It’s that kind of sacrifice that reminds us of Christ.

Just as a mother is willing to sacrifice her life for the child she loves, so too does Christ love us.  That he was willing to give his life for all of us is a testimony to the love we see from parent to child.  A mother’s life is often one of sacrifice. When we look again at Mary’s life not only did she risk much to give birth to Jesus, but she stood by him even at his death.  She was one of the few who remained by Jesus’ side in his final moments, and despite the ridicule he suffered, the abandonment of even his closest friends, she would not abandon him.  The pain and difficulty of seeing her son in those final moments must have been heart-rendering.  But she did it out of love for her child. Because that’s what a mother does.  She is willing to sacrifice herself for her children just as God does for us.

Mary fittingly is one of the cornerstones of our faith.

Not only because she was the mother of the Christ child, but because of her own example of faithfulness and self-sacrifice to God.  Looking through the Bible and reading through the history of the church, mothers have been vital in the development of the faith, both on a personal level and as a mirror of the self-sacrifice of Christ.  Think about the mothers we talked about today – not only Mary, but Jochebed, Naomi, the woman in King Solomon’s court, and the Canaanite woman.  Their actions were all based on love and self-sacrifice.  The same kind of love and self-sacrifice that God has shown to us through his son Jesus.  As parents, when we are at our best, we are a reflection of the love of Christ. 

When the Bible says we are created in his image, this is what it meant.

That we are built for love.  That it is in our nature to love and in its purest most Christ-like form to think of others before ourselves.  A mother’s instinct for love and self-sacrifice is because we are created in his image.  But as creatures of free choice, we don’t always make the wise decision.  Not all of us are blessed to have a mother who loves us the way we deserve or that she was created to be.  So, if you have a mother in your life who has given you this kind of love, whether she is your biological mother, your adopted mother, or your surrogate mother, remember to give thanks to her and thanks to God for the way he created us.

Slingshot 2.0

The most successful people in the world are unafraid of change.

To be fair, they may have been afraid, but they overcame their fear in the hopes of something better!  They dared to be different.  To do things outside of what others considered “normal.”  By the way, “normal” is overrated.  Different isn’t always popular.  Different can be risky.  Different means going against the status quo.  But it also means looking at a situation in a new way.  It means approaching a problem with a fresh attitude.  And often that’s what it takes to make the next big step, to evolve into something MORE.  Because when the old tried and true methods no longer work, we need the courage to do something different.  Take for example, Billy Beane. Billy Beane was different.  As general manager of the Oakland A’s, he threw nearly a century of “baseball wisdom” out the window and recruited a group of players using a system called sabermetrics which relied on data instead of traditional scouting techniques.  He was ridiculed, criticized, and belittled in the press.  The fans, other owners, even his own scouts were against him.  They said it would never work. But under his leadership the Oakland A’s were able to field a tough, competitive team with comparatively very little money. In 2002, the year they implemented the system, the A’s had the third lowest payroll in all of baseball with only $39.7 million.[1]  Yet they won an American League record 20 consecutive games and tied for most wins in all of baseball with a record of 103-59.  The only other team with as many wins was the New York Yankees whose payroll was more than three times that of the A’s.[2]  What Billy Beane did changed the face of baseball and still resonates today. When they make a movie of my life, I hope they get Tom Cruise.  Brad Pitt is great, but I think me and Tom have more in common.  There are still some who cling to the old ways of scouting, but most teams today incorporate at least some of the principles Beane adopted nearly 25 years ago. It even helped the Boston Red Sox break the Curse of the Bambino in 2004 to win its first World Series in 86 years.  Billy Beane did things differently and it worked.

Today, in our reading, we’re going to look at another person who did things differently.

That would be King David.  Or David as he is simply known at this part of his story.  This is a story you are familiar with.  Even if you’ve never read the Bible, you probably know about this event in David’s life.  We’re going to read a portion of the story of David and Goliath. At the beginning of the story, the Israelites and the Philistines are gathering for war.  The Israelites are on the top of one hill and the Philistines on another.  And in the midst of this, a man named Goliath comes forward from the Philistine’s camp and issues a challenge to the Israelites.  If one of the Israelites can best him in one-on-one combat, the Philistines will become the willful servants of the Israelites.  But if Goliath can beat the Israelites’ champion, they must become the willful servants of the Philistines.  Probably neither side would just give up that easily, but Goliath’s taunt did exactly what he hoped for.  It created fear in the hearts of the Israelites.  Not a one of them thought they could go toe-to-toe with Goliath.  As you know Goliath was one of the Philistine’s champions and he was HUGE!  Guinness Book of World Records huge.  Early manuscripts have him at about seven feet tall, but the Bible says he stood at 9’ 9” which would beat any other record by about a foot!  For forty days, Goliath came out and waited for someone from the Israelites to come challenge him.  That’s where David comes in.  Jesse sent David to the front lines to bring supplies to King Saul and to see how his sons were doing.  When David gets there, he sees the Israelites in fear of Goliath and when he is brought before the king, David volunteers to fight Goliath.  Saul tells David he doesn’t stand a chance and that’s where we pick up our story today.

Who doesn’t love this VeggieTales version of David and Goliath?

34 But David said to Saul, “Your servant has been keeping his father’s sheep. When a lion or a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock, 35 I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. 36 Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God. 37 The Lord who rescued me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will rescue me from the hand of this Philistine.” Saul said to David, “Go, and the Lord be with you.”

38 Then Saul dressed David in his own tunic. He put a coat of armor on him and a bronze helmet on his head. 39 David fastened on his sword over the tunic and tried walking around, because he was not used to them. “I cannot go in these,” he said to Saul, “because I am not used to them.” So he took them off. 40 Then he took his staff in his hand, chose five smooth stones from the stream, put them in the pouch of his shepherd’s bag and, with his sling in his hand, approached the Philistine.

50 So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone; without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him. 51 David ran and stood over him. He took hold of the Philistine’s sword and drew it from the sheath. After he killed him, he cut off his head with the sword. When the Philistines saw that their hero was dead, they turned and ran. – 1 Samuel 17:34-40 and 50-51

David did what was different.

But maybe not the way you’re used to looking at it.  We see this story as an incredible testament to the faith that David had in God, and it is.  It’s a story of great faith.  Here is this young man with basically no training whatsoever who comes to the battlefield and decides to take on this nearly ten foot giant because he insulted the people of God.  Now, everyone else in Saul’s army heard these same insults, but only David was moved enough to go out there and face Goliath.  In all honesty, Saul probably thought this might be what was needed to motivate the troops, the death of a young Israelite at the hands of this giant.  Maybe it would be enough to shame them into action and to find the bravery to face the Philistines.  Or maybe he really did believe in David and that the hand of God was upon this young man.  But either way, it was a testimony to David’s faith in God.  But David did something else that is a lesson we need to hear.  To make a difference, we have to do things differently.  Take a look at this passage we just read and you can see that’s exactly what David did.  David finally convinces Saul to let him face Goliath and after giving him his blessing, Saul gives David his very own tunic.  Being the king, it was probably the best protection money could buy.  He gave him armor and a helmet, but David told him, “I cannot go in these because I am not used to them.”  Saul’s probably wondering what kind of protection David was going to wear since he didn’t come into camp with any.  As it is, David would NEED some kind of protection if he hoped to survive even the first blow Goliath gave him.  But David shed the armor and instead picked up a few stones and his slingshot and went into battle.  And that’s it.  Stones and a slingshot. Traditionally, men in one-on-one combat would bear down on each other in their armor and weapons and trade blows until one of them fell.  It would be slow.  Like two tree trunks swinging wildly at each other.  Which is why David should have needed armor.  But he knew he couldn’t defeat Goliath the traditional way.  He would be slaughtered.  So, David it differently.  No armor meant he was extremely agile which he used to his advantage.  He ran at his opponent, fired a stone at his head, the only part of Goliath’s body not likely covered with some sort of protection, and killed the giant.  Had he been wearing armor he likely would have been so slow Goliath could easily have defended himself and killed David with a single blow.  But David did it differently.

This is obviously not ancient Israeli armor, but to illustrate how clunky armor battle was

Ecclesiastes says “there is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens.”

The trick is realizing when that time is up and when it’s time to do something different.  Because as the world around us changes, we need to change, too.  We need to adapt.  We need to adjust to new circumstances.  That’s not always easy, but sometimes it’s necessary.  Look at the example of David.  Had he fought Goliath in the traditional way, he almost surely would have been killed.  But because he did things differently, he found a way to beat the odds.  Businesses do this all the time.  They are always trying to find something BETTER.  Even when they are succeeding, they are always looking for that competitive advantage. Failure to adapt leads you to failure.  Odds are its difficult to find any product the same way it was when you were a child.  Even if the name is the same, it’s probably “new and improved.”  Take for instance, Oreos or should I say the Oreo Chocolate Sandwich Cookie – its official name since 1974.[3]  The Oreo cookie has saturated the market. Today they are the number one selling cookie in the world selling over 3 BILLION dollars worth per year – more than three times the amount of the next leading brand (Gamesa if you’re wondering).[4]  But never one to rest on their laurels, Oreo has branched out and done any number of varieties of Oreo cookies.  Double Stuf was the earliest variation coming out in 1974, Oreo Minis came out in 1991, and since then the flavors and varieties have kept on coming.  They even released Gluten Free Oreos in 2021!  Why bother when you are the number one cookie in the world?  Because they want to stay that way.

In the same way, we need to examine where it is in our lives we might need to do things differently.

What isn’t working the way you hoped?  What do you need to do differently to make it work?  Maybe it’s something simple like our food choices.  Maybe it’s how we relate to other people.  Maybe it’s the path our career is taking us.  Or maybe it’s where you feel God is calling you.  Are you doing all you can to follow where God is leading you in your life, or do you hide behind the comfort and security of the familiar?  Isn’t that so easy to do?  It’s hard for us to step out in faith and do something different.  We like staying with the tried and true – even if it’s not so tried and true any longer.  But then we look at God’s example.  God is the ultimate “doing something different” type of person.  Jesus took death on the cross and turned it into new life.  He took the symbol of utter despair and hopelessness and turned it into a symbol for life and hope instead.  When Jesus was resurrected, he showed the disciples and ultimately the world that death was only a new beginning.  The Israelites thought the savior of the world would come in triumph to destroy their enemies and lead them into a new existence.  And he did.  But not in the way they imagined.  Jesus, like David, did something different.  What will you do differently?  This is a question we need to ask ourselves – both personally and even as a church.  Churches all over the world are growing smaller, especially in countries like the United States.  Often, it’s because the world around us keeps changing and we struggle to keep up.  We fight against change because we like the comfort and security of the familiar.  But without change, without growth, we fail to meet the needs of the people around us – the people who need to see God is alive and relevant to who they are.  How can you contribute to God’s Kingdom?  Maybe inviting a friend.  Maybe by giving more of your time, talent, gifts, service, and witness.  Pray on it and ask God what he would like you to do differently – and do it.  Personally, I want to challenge you to do something different.  Try a new vegetable.  Exercise more.  Eat a new food.  It may make little difference, or it could change your life.  Who knows?  You won’t…until you do something different. 


[1] http://www.baseballchronology.com/Baseball/Years/2002/Payroll.asp

[2] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2002_Major_League_Baseball_season

[3] https://www.thoughtco.com/history-of-the-oreo-cookie-1779206

[4] https://www.statista.com/statistics/420561/global-cookie-market-sales-of-the-leading-brands/

Two Words To A Better Life

Three steps to a better YOU!

Five ways to make broccoli fun!  Ten movies we can’t wait to see!  Everybody’s got a list.  Everybody wants to make you a better person, help you lead a better life.  Well, I’ve got a list too.  Two words to a better life.  That’s it.  Hard to believe, isn’t it?  These two words are so powerful they will make you 10-25% happier with your life.[1] Even happier than if you won a million dollars in the lottery.[2]  It’s true.  So, what two words are they?  “Thank you.” 

But you can’t just say it without meaning it.

Actual gratitude is important.  If you have kids (or a grumpy spouse), how many of you have tried to get them to say thanks and MEAN IT.  Most of us have heard people say thanks without an ounce of real gratitude behind their words.  Either they say it begrudgingly, sarcastically, or as if to say, “Thanks for nothing.”  To truly experience all the benefits from those two magic words, there has to be sincerity behind it. 

Did you know the word “thank” is a derivative of the verb “to think.”

And the phrase “thank you” originally meant, “I will remember what you did for me.”[3]  In other languages, the sentiment is even stronger.  The French word for “thank you,” “merci,” is the parent of our own word for “mercy.”  When someone says “thanks” in French, what they are doing is placing themselves at the mercy of the other person as if to say, “I am in your debt.”  It’s that kind of attitude behind our gratitude that we need, an actual expression of indebtedness.  People appreciate feeling appreciated.  In the workplace, studies found saying “thank you” increases productivity among employees by as much as 50%.[4]  They’ve also found generosity is contagious.  The more we give appreciation to others the more they do it for one another.  And appreciated people find greater job satisfaction, which just makes common sense.[5]  In married couples, these two simple words can save your marriage.  They found couples that regularly say “thank you” were less likely to be affected by arguments between them.[6]  Gratitude coats the relationship in a protective shell.  Because they felt appreciated by their spouse, valued by their spouse, and acknowledged their spouse when they did something nice built up a reserve of good feelings that made arguments less likely to turn into something worse.[7] 

Just one of many benefits that gratitude creates for us and others

Expressing gratitude not only helps the other person, but helps us, too!

One study at Harvard asked participants to journal about things they were grateful for over a 10-week period and had another group journal things that irritated them over the same amount of time.  As you can probably guess, the gratitude group were more optimistic, felt better about life, exercised more, and went to the doctor less than the others.[8] What was most astounding to me was another study done showing over a six-month period you would be happier recording your blessings for five minutes a day than winning more than a million dollars in the lottery.  Winning the lottery is awesome, but that momentary happiness that comes from it fades away and in just six months your happiness increase is barely up 4% more than what it was before.  People who simply journal their gratitude show an increase of 10% happiness in that same time – 2.5 times happier than winning the lottery.  Want to know other ways gratitude makes your life better?  People like you more.  You are generally healthier.  It can boost your career.  You focus less on material things and focus instead on your soul.  It improves our sleep.  We live longer lives.  It makes us feel good.  It helps us to relax. And those are just SOME of the benefits of being grateful.[9] 

If you still aren’t convinced why you should express gratitude more often, let’s get Biblical!

That’s right, gratitude is Biblical and while there are a great many examples of being grateful in the Bible (both from Jesus and to Jesus) probably the best and most explicit example is the story of the ten lepers.  During this time, you have to remember medicine wasn’t what it is today.  Most people thought leprosy was highly contagious so they banished anyone who had it to outside the city limits.  There were all kinds of rules lepers had to obey.  Not only were they not allowed in the city, but they couldn’t even stand within six feet of another human being and if the wind was blowing they had to stay at least 150 feet away.[10]  The only condition considered more unclean than leprosy was death.  So when Jesus comes along, a group of lepers see him and beg him for help. 

11 Now on his way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. 12 As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance 13 and called out in a loud voice, “Jesus, Master, have pity on us!”

14 When he saw them, he said, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were cleansed.

15 One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. 16 He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him—and he was a Samaritan.

17 Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? 18 Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?” 19 Then he said to him, “Rise and go; your faith has made you well.” – Luke 17:11-19

Ten men had leprosy. Ten men were healed. But only one came back to say “thank you.” 

What’s even more amazing, the one was a Samaritan.  Samaritans were among the most despised people in Israel.  The only thing worse than having leprosy was to be a Samaritan with leprosy.  But it was the Samaritan who came back to say, “thank you” to Jesus.  It was such a big deal that the Bible even specifically points it out.  Verse 16, “He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him – and he was a Samaritan (emphasis mine).”  Of all the people healed, he was probably the one most likely NOT to give thanks.  Samaritans were not treated well by the Jewish people.  Out of resentment or spite or just plain anger, he would have the most reason not to come back, but he wanted to make sure Jesus knew how much he appreciated it.

When we read this, it’s easy to imagine that the other nine were this really ungrateful bunch. 

But they were probably very, very grateful.[11]  Imagine having this horrible disease that most people never get cured of, never getting to see your family and friends again, and then suddenly being healed!  If it were you, you’d probably be ecstatic!  They might have been in such a rush after getting healed they took off to see the priest without thinking about it.  The only way a leper was allowed back into the community was by showing himself to the priest and being declared healed.  That’s why Jesus tells them to go find the priest, so they can come back and see their family and friends.  So given all of that, we could understand if it slipped their mind.  But it shouldn’t have.  It only took the Samaritan a moment to give thanks to God for the healing.  Which one are you more like, the nine or the one? Do you make time to tell others how grateful you are?  Do you reflect on the effort others put out for you?  Or do you sometimes take the people in your life for granted?

Although at times we might be like the nine, let us strive to be the one.

Given the scientific evidence, we all take people for granted.

At least a little.  A study back in 2012 showed we had a “gratitude gap.”[12]  They found 90% of people were grateful for their family and 87% were grateful for their friends, but only 52% of women and only 44% of men expressed gratitude on a regular basis.[13]  Why are we so reluctant to express our gratitude?  There are many reasons this happens but one is because people are self-serving.[14]  When things go bad, we like to blame other people, and when things go well, we like to take credit for ourselves.  Robert Emmons who is well known for his research on gratitude wrote, “Gratitude really goes against the self-serving bias because when we’re grateful, we give credit to other people for our success.”[15]  Expressing gratitude takes effort to overcome this self-serving bias.  It also goes against our need for control because it recognizes there are outside forces at work helping us to achieve success.  Emmons wrote something insightful about this.  He said, “I think true gratitude involves a humble dependence on others.”[16]  That humility points us toward God, the one to whom we should all be grateful and reminds us we are not the sole source of our own blessings. 

Find your way to express gratitude.

For me, I like to do it through thank you notes. It’s not only a personal way to say thanks, but it is also a reminder to myself I have so much to be grateful for. But you need to find your own way.  Whatever it is make sure you it is sincere and heartfelt.  Something I read in Harvard Business Review said, “Think of something specific you are grateful for, acknowledge the cost or difficulty or sacrifice the person gave to do that specific thing, and then let them know why it was important to you.[17]  When you take time to reflect on your gratitude it can’t help but come from your heart.  If you watch any of the award shows that take place around this time every year, you see people come up and give thanks.  Who would you give thanks to?  Take a moment today or sometime this week to write your own acceptance speech.  Think about the people on your list and why they are important to you.  And then tell them.  Send them a card.  Give them a call.  Bring them some homemade food and say those two little words that can make you 10% happier than you are today. Thank you. 


[1] http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/09/practicing-gratitude-can-increase.php and http://happierhuman.com/benefits-of-gratitude/

[2] http://happierhuman.com/benefits-of-gratitude/

[3] https://www.brainpickings.org/2013/07/25/origin-of-please-and-thank-you/

[4] https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2016/11/20/how-an-authentic-thank-you-can-change-your-workplace-culture/#187c5c2f7990

[5] Ibid

[6] http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3283713/The-secret-happy-marriage-Saying-thank-Study-finds-gratitude-predict-couple-remains-together.html

[7] Ibid

[8] https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/in-praise-of-gratitude

[9] http://happierhuman.com/benefits-of-gratitude/

[10] https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-leprosy.html

[11] Andy does a great job talking about this in his sermon “I Owe Who” found on the Your Move With Andy Stanley podcast 11/12/2016

[12] https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/images/uploads/JTF_GRATITUDE_REPORTpub.doc

[13] Ibid

[14] https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_gratitude_is_good

[15] Ibid

[16] Ibid

[17] https://hbr.org/2013/02/how-to-give-a-meaningful-thank

Jesus Is A Fluffy Bunny

Unconditional surrender.

Two words you don’t want to hear if you are on the losing end of a battle.  Unconditional surrender means you will give up without any guarantee of safety.  You are completely at the mercy of whoever you’re surrendering to.  And that is scary.  Not knowing what they will do; if they’ll be merciful or vengeful, kind or cruel can overwhelm us with fear.  Some people would rather die than surrender unconditionally. They would rather go out on their own terms than give in to someone else’s – even if it means death. So what do we do when the God we believe in asks that of us?  God wants us to surrender to him unconditionally.

But we are so unwilling to give up control that we can’t even put our trust in God!

We call upon God when WE want to.  We pray when it’s convenient for us.  We worship when it fits into our schedule.  We put Christ on call as if Jesus were checking his text messages for some kind of signal from us.  There was a short-lived show called Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip and in the first episode two of the characters, Jeannie and Harriet, are talking to each other about the uncertainty of the future so Jeannie asks Harriet, “Do we just let Jesus be our co-pilot?”  And Jeannie replies, “No. My mom used to say if Jesus is your co-pilot, you should trade seats.”[1]  But how often do we do that?  How often do we relinquish control and let Jesus guide our life?  We want Jesus to be where we want, when we want, and how we want him to be.  And when he’s not we conveniently tune him out.  Even in church.

Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip quote

A friend of mine was criticized for preaching the Gospel.

We were both starting out in ministry and she was an associate pastor at a fairly big church.  They had two services and she would lead one while the senior pastor would lead the other.  After a while, one of the church members who attended her service came in to complain to the senior pastor about her preaching.  The senior pastor sat the woman down and asked what seemed to be the problem.  Was she not preaching from the Bible?  No, that wasn’t it.  Was she sharing a message not in line with the Gospel?  No, that wasn’t it either.  So what seemed to be the problem?  She told the senior pastor that she wasn’t hearing the message she wanted to hear.  She complained, “She’s always challenging us to improve and be better than we are.  How about once in a while we hear sermons about how Jesus is like a fluffy bunny?  You know?  I’d like for once to hear about how following Jesus is like a beach ball floating in the wind.  Just floating up in the air.  How come it always has to be so serious?”  Those were her exact words, “Jesus is like a fluffy bunny.”  There are just some things you never expect to hear and “Jesus is like a fluffy bunny” is one for the ages.  As outlandish as that might seem to some of you, it is more common than you might think.  I’ve had my own “fluffy bunny” moments. Not quite as extreme, but pretty close.  Some people are uncomfortable when they are challenged to change, to accept different ideas, to do something different or to think in a different way.  But Jesus always challenged us to grow deeper in faith, to expand our understanding of God, and to stretch ourselves in directions we may not have thought of on our own.  He wants us to put our trust in him, to surrender to his will. 

Do you want to hear how Jesus is like a fluffy bunny or a beach ball?

Paul reminds us our relationship with Jesus is one of mutual submission.

Many of Jesus’ followers talk about this concept of mutual submission.  Jesus comes to serve all of humanity.  Jesus surrenders his life for ours on the cross.  Jesus humbles himself by washing the feet of his disciples.  Jesus modeled for us the kind of servant’s heart he wants to see in us all.  Paul tells us we are supposed to submit to one another also.  Husbands should submit to their wives as wives should submit to their husbands.  Parents should honor their children as their children should honor them.  The ideal relationship as described to us by Jesus and his followers is about mutual submission.  It’s the only way it works right.  And in our passage this morning, Paul talks about his own submission to Christ. 

19 “For through the law I died to the law so that I might live for God. 20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. 21 I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!” – Galatians 2:19-21

In this passage, Paul isn’t telling us what to do.

He’s telling us about his own experience with Christ and how it changed his life.  Paul was probably thought of by many people as a zealot and maybe in some ways he was, but if so, it was only because he was zealous for the kind of life we could all lead under Christ.  Some of what he says might seem confusing because he uses a lot of contradictory statements.  He says he died to the law so he might live in Christ.  He says he no longer lives but Christ lives in him.  But what he means is he finally surrendered to the understanding that he would never fulfill the law and so he devoted his life to the only one who could fulfill it – Jesus.  And by so doing he gave up his own way of life to become an ambassador for Christ.  And then he closes with this powerful statement, “I do not set aside the grace of God…” Paul doesn’t ignore, he doesn’t belittle, he doesn’t discount God’s grace in all of this, “for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!”  He’s telling us if all we had to do was follow some rules to have our sins wiped away, if all we had to do was fulfill a certain number of requirements to get into Heaven, then Jesus’ sacrifice was pointless.  We wouldn’t need his death on the cross.  We could do it on our own.  But we can’t.  As good as we can be, we cannot be perfect.  We cannot be sinless.  It’s not a matter of willpower.  It’s not a matter of being strong enough.  We just can’t do it.  The only way to overcome this mountain of mistakes and wrongdoing is to submit to it, to admit it cannot be overcome.  Only then can we change for the better.

A prescription for surrendering your life to God by Rick Warren

Rick Warren wrote a devotional around this concept.

He wrote, “Surrendering your life means:  Following God’s lead without knowing where he’s sending you.  Waiting for God’s timing without knowing when it will come.  Expecting a miracle without knowing how God will provide.  And trusting God’s purpose without understanding the circumstances.”[2]  Following God’s lead.  Waiting for God’s timing.  Expecting a miracle.  Trusting God’s purpose.  This is what it means to surrender to God.  Have you?  Have you truly surrendered to God?  We all fall short and will at times assert our own will, but have you made that commitment to follow Christ by fully surrendering to his will?  Or are you still putting Jesus as your co-pilot?  You can be the pilot of your own life.  You can be the captain of your own football team.  You can be the chef of your own kitchen.  But are you the most qualified for the job? When I worked at Disneyland, I was the captain our volleyball team – meaning I was the one who signed people up, gathered the money, and turned in the paperwork.  As the captain, I was responsible for making the assignments of who would play where.  My favorite position was at the net.  That’s where all the action is.  Heroes are made at the net.  But look at me.  Even then I was 5’ 10” at best.  My jumping ability was about the same as that of a turtle.  But I was good at digging for the ball.  I did a great job of saving the point.  And I was very accurate at serving.  It was hard, but I had to admit I wasn’t the best person for the front line so I put myself in the back row.  And even though I had the right to do it, I chose to do what was best.  That’s all God wants for our lives.  He wants us to choose what’s best.  That’s why he doesn’t force us because then not only do we not learn, but the decision is never really ours to begin with.  We have to choose to surrender to God. 

Let us recommit our lives to Christ.

Let us remind ourselves that when we chose to be Christian, we chose to surrender our lives to him.  We didn’t choose to surrender our lives on condition.  We didn’t surrender our lives because it was convenient.  We chose to surrender unconditionally to God.  Let us honor that commitment today as we lift it up in prayer.

God Almighty,

I surrender my control to you.  I surrender my control to you.  I surrender my control to you.  I am not the best guide of my own life.  You are.  And when I surrender myself to you, my life becomes a whole lot better.  But it is hard for me to do.  The truth is I cannot do it alone.  I cannot earn my way to Heaven.  I cannot forgive my own sins. I put myself at your mercy.  And surrender to your grace.  Today, I give myself to you unconditionally.  And my life is the better for it.  In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost.  Amen.


[1] http://studio-60.hypnoweb.net/episodes-/saison-1/episode-102/script-vo-102.96.254/

[2] From a Rick Warren devotional which is no longer published but was on rickwarren.org

The Game of Life

The Game of Life is insidious.

At least it was when I was growing up.  Today’s version is a lot more friendly, and I love how there are different ways to win.  It still has those rolling hills, white buildings, and magical spinner, but now you have all sorts of choices you didn’t have in the old game and to me it’s even more fun than before.  But the old game?  While I had fun playing it, I didn’t like the message it sent – “Money is the only important thing in life.”  Did you know that the Game of Life was the first game ever created by Milton Bradley?[1]  Yes, THAT Milton Bradley.  The company that brought you Battleship, Yahtzee, Connect Four, Candy Land and so many more.  But the foundation for his success was The Game of Life that he invented back in 1861.  And in his game, it wasn’t about money either.   Milton Bradley thought that you could teach important life lessons through play, so his game focused on living a long and happy life.  But over time, the game changed, and it focused instead on acquiring money.  In fact, if you got to the end of the game and you were behind, you could spin the wheel for a chance to win, but if you failed, you were destined for the Poor Farm.  The game’s attitude changed from living a good life to success at all costs, and success was measured only by money and things.  But do you really think money can buy you happiness? 

Stuart Scott is one of the most famous anchors to ever hold the position on SportsCenter.

Bear with me.  It all makes sense.  If you watched ESPN in its early days, you know his name and if you don’t you might have heard some of his famous catch phrases.  He was one of the most famous and groundbreaking sports anchors in the business and he was well known for the things he would say on TV.  Some of my favorites were, “Cool as the other side of the pillow.”  Or “He must be the bus driver cuz he was takin’ him to school!” But the one everyone knows best is just two short syllables, “Boo-yow!”[2]  Stuart Scott was one of those influential people who changed the way we watch television.  He also defined SportsCenter for an entire generation of viewers.  But at the young age of 49, Stuart Scott passed away from cancer.  He had been battling it for nearly 8 years beginning in 2007 when after an appendectomy it was discovered he had the deadly disease.  He battled it back numerous times but finally died because of it in 2015.  Still, he approached life with an amazing attitude.  While being honored in 2014 at the ESPY awards, he said about his battle with this horrible disease, “When you die, it does not mean that you lose to cancer. You BEAT cancer, by HOW you live, WHY you live, and in the manner in WHICH you live.” Some really deep thoughts.  We do tend to think of life as a game in which there are winners and losers, but winning and losing the game of life isn’t about money or fame or achievement.  Winning and losing the game of life is about what you do with the time you have.

This is a lesson God has been trying to teach us all along.

We’re going to read this morning from a passage you’re probably familiar with. Life isn’t a game to be won or lost, at least not in the traditional sense.  Normally, when you play a game, there are winners and there are losers.  In basketball, in baseball, in football.  We are taught that winning is a zero-sum game. But to win at life, is different because it’s a game you play by yourself.  Whether you win or lose has nothing to do with scores or money or ratings or any kind of metric we traditionally use to define ourselves with.  And in this game, when we win, others win too.  And when we lose, so do they.  Here is what Jesus said to the crowds about this in Mark’s Gospel. 

34 Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 35 For whoever wants to save their life[b] will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. 36 What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? 37 Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? 38 If anyone is ashamed of me and my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his Father’s glory with the holy angels.” – Mark 8:34-38

When we value the same things God values, we become winners in life.

Both in this one AND the next.  That’s what Christ means when he says we must deny ourselves and follow him.  We must be willing to let go of the part of us that clings to the world and its values and instead admit to our weakness (by bearing our cross) and follow him.  When we do that, we become alive in a new way.  We are a new creation in Christ, and we belong to something greater and more noble than anything on Earth.  And more importantly, we are saying our eternal life is more important to us than our mortal one.  That’s why Jesus’ words are so powerful when he says, “What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?  Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?”  There is nothing we can earn in this lifetime that could ever match the promise of the next.  There’s no amount of stuff we can gain that can redeem our soul other than giving our life to God.  To the outside world, that sometimes seems like we’re giving up a lot.  But when you know the peace of God in your heart, it’s really giving up very little.

Have you seen the movie, Field of Dreams?[3]

There’s a part in that movie that really touched me when I saw it.  It’s a scene between Ray Kinsella, played by Kevin Costner, and Doc Graham played by Burt Lancaster.  In the scene, Ray comes to visit Doc to see if he can make his wish of batting in the major leagues come true and he tells the Doc that he knows of a place where this could happen.  Doc Graham is obviously moved by Ray’s gesture, but he says, “If it means leaving Chisholm…” and shakes his head ‘no.’  Ray looks at him and says, “But your wish…” And the Doc responds, “It’ll stay one.  I was born here, lived here, and I’ll die here.  That’s okay.  I’ll have no regrets.”  But Ray can’t let it go.  Doc is willing to sacrifice his dreams to hit in the big leagues for a life in Chisholm, Minnesota?  He says, “But sixty-five years ago – for five minutes – you came THIS close. It would kill some men to get that close to their dream and never touch it.  They’d consider it a tragedy.”  But Doc looks at him with a soft look on his face and says, “Son…if I’d only gotten to be a doctor for five minutes…now that would’ve been a tragedy.”  Those words just touched me in a deep way the first time I heard them and every time thereafter.  I think I’ve seen the movie twenty times and I still love it.  But Doc’s words drive home the point that Christ told us in our passage this morning.  It’s not fame or fortune that defines our life.  It really is about this sense of fulfillment that we derive from living our best lives and as Christians we believe that our best lives come from Christ.  When we live our lives according to HIS values and HIS direction, we find that peace that so often eludes the world. 

As I keep getting older, I think more and more about what it means to live a “successful” life.

In 2008, one of my high school friends, Darryl Ishii passed away.  He was barely forty years old.  He was much more fit than me.  He exercised regularly and had a passion for basketball.  We weren’t that close, but I knew him enough to consider him a friend.  We went to high school together and played basketball together when we were kids.  And he died.  Suddenly.  From a heart attack while on the court playing basketball.  He left behind a wife and two kids.  Stuart Scott, nearly the same age as me suddenly found out he had cancer.  He also was fit, and famous, and had a family who loved him.  And then there are others who live to be 100 for no particular reason.  They don’t take care of themselves any better or worse than my friend Daryl did or Stuart did.  So was Daryl’s life or Stuart’s life any less of a success for having been so much shorter?  I don’t think so.  I don’t think we can take a standard measurement like money, or fame, or long life even as the measure of success.  I see many people who spend the last year, 5 years, 10 years of their lives not quite themselves and wonder how they view their life.  For me, watching different people come to their end in different ways, I believe that the success of your life is wholly dependent on you and God.  Not your circumstances.  Not the years you have.  Not the awards or accolades you accumulate.  Not whether or not you get your name in the paper.  All of that is short-lived.  The success in your life is dependent on the peace in your heart, the knowledge that you’ve lived your best life, that you are loved and that you love others, and that you have done everything you can to be deserving of that love.  And all of that comes into place when we walk closely with God.  Only God can give us the peace and contentment that we so desperately seek.  As we approach Easter and the resurrection of our Lord, let us resurrect in ourselves a renewed spirit to live our best life.  For ourselves, for those we love, and to honor the gift God has given us.  With God, we give meaning to the HOW, and the WHY, and the manner in WHICH we live.  God bless you all. 


[1] Information on The Game of Life came primarily from an article from The Vox and Wikipedia.

[2] Great article on Stuart Scott.  Read it and was surprised myself to find out that what I always thought was “Boo-yah” was actually “Boo-yow!” http://espn.go.com/espn/story/_/id/12118296/stuart-scott-espn-anchor-dies-age-49

[3] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9yrupye7B0

The Downfall of John Kreese

“Sweep the leg.”

That scene from The Karate Kid is as iconic of the ‘80s as Darth Vader’s “I am your father” or The Terminator‘s “I’ll be back.”  Three simple words that would unravel John Kreese’s life.  When Kreese orders Johnny to do this, he’s given up any pretense at being an honorable man.  He instantly loses the respect of his prize student and he stands revealed as the villain we all know he is – a man so consumed with winning he would do anything to achieve it.  When Johnny hesitates, Kreese sneers at him, “You have a problem with that?” And Johnny, speechless, simply responds, “No, sensei.”  Reinforcing his order, Kreese follows up with, “No mercy,” and sends Johnny back onto the mat.  Maybe before this moment you could write off Kreese’s mantra as bravado, as something to pump up his students.  But there’s no mistaking it now.  These aren’t just words.  It’s what he lives his life by.  To him, you win or you’re a loser.  There’s nothing in-between.  Even for something as inconsequential as the All-Valley Karate Championship.  Because for Kreese, it’s all about pride.  In his arrogance, he never imagined young Daniel LaRusso would have been able to make it this far in the tournament, let alone be up two points to none against his prize student in the title match.  His whole sense of self-esteem is built on the backs of his students and to see them fail (and to him anything less than the title is failure) is unbearable.  And when he does lose, his entire world crumbles around him.  He loses his composure, his sense of self, his sanity, his students, and his dojo.  All because of pride. 

Pride is the anti-God.

C.S. Lewis, the guy who wrote The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, is also famous for being a great Christian theologian and he describes pride as “…the essential vice, the utmost evil… Unchastity, anger, greed, drunkenness, and all that, are mere fleabites in comparison: it was through Pride that the devil became the devil: Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind.”[1] But is that always true?  I’m certainly proud of my daughter, Emma.  Is that bad?  Can you be a proud parent and not be a tool of the devil?  Turns out you can.  If you have a Bible or a Bible app on your phone would you find the Gospel of Luke, chapter 18 beginning with verse 9.  Luke 18:9. According to psychologists, there are two types of pride – hubristic and authentic.[2] As you can imagine, hubristic pride is the type of pride often looked down upon.  It’s the kind that got John Kreese into trouble. Whereas authentic pride is the kind parents feel for their children or friends might feel for each other or that you might feel for something you accomplished. 

I have to admit I was pretty darn proud of myself when I completed the Disneyland 5K. 

Being both flat-footed and overweight, I wasn’t sure if I would make it ahead of the pick-up cart.  The pick-up cart is a little tram-like vehicle that goes behind the runners, and if you fall too far off the pace, you’ll get “picked up” and won’t get to complete the race.  I walked/ran (but mostly walked) slightly out of fear of seeing the pick-up cart behind me, but not only did I finish, I never saw the cart at all.  I felt a swell of pride!  Not because I beat anyone.  God knows my time was nothing to write home about.  But because I set a goal for myself I wasn’t sure I could complete.  And that’s the main difference between the two types of pride – hubristic pride is competitive by nature.  It requires you to “beat” someone.  It means that others have to be “less than” for you to feel accomplished.  C.S. Lewis, in his book Mere Christianity, put it this way, “Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not.  They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others.  If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about.  It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest.”[3]  Hubristic pride is always felt at the cost of someone else.  That’s the lesson we see in the Bible as well. 

It’s okay to have pride. It only becomes negative when it comes at the expense of others.

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’

13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’

14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” – Luke 18:9-14

If you thought humblebragging was a 21st century thing, the Pharisees thought of it first.

This guy comes up to the temple and belittles the tax collector in front of God.  He probably doesn’t know him from Adam (or Eve for that matter).  But he feels the need to elevate himself by making the other guy look bad.  You can almost sense the insincerity of this Pharisee as he gives “thanks” to God.  We all know in reality he’s just trying to make himself look good. He’d be better off just bragging.  According to a study done by Harvard, humblebragging is the most despised form of bragging because it is so insincere.[4]  People would prefer you just come out and tell us how wonderful you are than try to disguise your bragging as false humility or a complaint.  But nobody is fooling God.  Jesus tells us in this parable, it is the tax collector who receives forgiveness in God’s eyes. Like most of us, God sees through this humblebragging easily and isn’t impressed.

The problem with hubristic pride is it constantly needs to be affirmed.

The braggart isn’t bragging because he is so self-confident.  He is bragging because he is looking for affirmation that he is worthy.  His “self-confidence” rests only on the belief that other people are not as good as he is.  That’s why John Kreese feels so threatened by Mr. Miyagi and his student, because to lose to a Japanese handyman and his incompetent student would crush his sense of self-worth.  The foundation for his sense of self rests on being better than other people. The thing is, if that is the basis of your self-worth, you are doomed.  Around the corner there is always someone who is faster than you, stronger than you, a better marksman than you.  There is always someone better.  That’s the nature of being at the top.  Eventually, you aren’t any more.  Someone once wrote, “greatness is indeed on loan temporarily from the Gods (or God, but that’s not what was written).”[5] But sometimes, when pride is at its worst and we become so desperate to maintain our belief in ourselves, we will do unconscionable things to keep ourselves there.  Cheat, lie, steal, even harm others all in the name of pride. 

Instead, God wants us to be confident in ourselves without needing others to confirm it.

A person with self-esteem tends to have authentic pride.  They are people who are confident enough in themselves and don’t need to be constantly affirmed by the outside world that they are worthy.  They already know they are.  Genuine self-esteem is linked to “successful social relationships and mental health,” whereas people who feel the need to constantly promote themselves or bring attention to their achievements are linked to “aggression and other antisocial behaviors.”[6]

To some degree, we are all probably a little bit guilty of hubris.

The danger is in letting that become how you define yourself.  If you’re sense of self-worth is only based on how others see you, if you feel the need to compare yourself to the Joneses, if you care so much about being “the best” that you lose your moral compass, you are in real danger of letting the evil in this world overwhelm you.  Jesus once said, “What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul (Matthew 16:26)?”  This is how evil works in the world today, by making you feel unworthy unless you have more than everyone else, unless you’re more powerful than the next guy, when we are already loved by God who values the person you already are.  In The Karate Kid, Daniel asks Mr. Miyagi what kind of belt he has, and Mr. Miyagi answers, “Canvas.  J.C. Penny, $3.99.  In Okinawa, belt means no need rope to hold up pants!” After laughing for a bit, Mr. Miyagi says, “Daniel, karate here (points to head), karate here (points to heart), karate never here (points to belt).  Understand?” Mr. Miyagi is telling Daniel what God is trying to tell us, to know your own self-worth and not let it be defined by the outside world.  God loves you for who you are and simply wants you to be the best version of you that you can be. 


[1] C.S. Lewis Mere Christianity pg 51 (Kindle version)

[2] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201407/the-key-difference-between-pride-and-arrogance

[3] Op.Cit., Lewis, p.52

[4] http://time.com/5095144/humblebrag-bragging/

[5] http://thesportjournal.org/article/when-pride-goes-wrong/

[6] https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15298860802505053

Fear is the Mind Killer

I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.

The Bene Gesserit “Litany Against Fear” from the book Dune.

A powerful reminder that fear, as powerful as it can be, isn’t real.  Fear can be conquered.  Fear is simply a label we put on a feeling we have when our body is warning us about a possible threat.  And that’s the key word – “possible.”  We can be fearful of things that pose no threat or danger to us at all.  But if our minds perceive it as a threat or even a potential threat, we CAN react with fear.  We can take a nugget of information and turn it into a snowball of fear that spurs us to do hurtful, irrational, illogical, and sometimes downright stupid things.  When I was six years old, my mom told me that laundry detergent could kill you.  Technically, she’s right.  If I swallowed a box of laundry detergent, and didn’t get help, it could kill me.  But there are 20 steps in-between she failed to mention; the result of which had me holding my breath and RUNNING down the detergent aisle every time we went to the grocery store.  I’d stand there at the other end, wondering how in the world my mom could so casually walk down this aisle of death!  With my little sister Karen no less!  I’d be pleading with my mom from the other end to hurry up and get out of there and heaven forbid she should actually BUY a box of death.  I’d be holding my breath any time I was near the shopping cart!

Litany Against Fear by the Bene Gesserit from Dune

Fear is like laundry detergent. 

Its purpose isn’t to hurt us, but to help us.  Like the cute little guy in the movie Inside Out, Fear is meant to be our body’s warning system.  It puts us on high alert to potential danger so we can respond quickly if something turns out to be an actual threat.  But if we let fear drive us, if we let fear consume us, it can become a threat.  It can change us and alter the way we look at the world.  The internment of the Japanese during World War II is a prime example of fear running amok.  Despite absolutely no evidence of any actual threat by any person of Japanese ancestry, our government decided to lock up every person (including my parents and grandparents) of Japanese heritage.  They forced innocents to move to remote locations in conditions worse than most prisons without any compensation for their loss.  And although we were at war against the Germans and the Italians, people with ethnic ties to those countries were not typically rounded up.  It was fear that drove that decision.  The same thing happened after 9/11 with the Muslim community.  Hate crimes against people who looked Arabic (whether they were Muslim or not) skyrocketed.  Abuse, violence, and even death just for LOOKING like someone with Arabic heritage.  Similar things have happened in the LGBT community, the Mexican community, and pretty much any group you can think of who have been labeled as “different.”  In the “Litany Against Fear,” they describe fear as the “mind-killer” and the “little-death that brings total obliteration.”  And that rings true on so many levels.  Fear erodes at our being.  Fear turns us into the worst versions of ourselves.  That person who normally would be kind-hearted and caring, can turn into a rabid hate-monger.  It’s the “little-death” because it happens without us consciously being aware of it.  It’s a “mind-killer” because it erodes logical thought.  We don’t suddenly say, “Today I’m going to be a hate-monger.”  Fear gnaws away at our character and we develop prejudices and negative attitudes that don’t align with the truth at all.  Instead, we develop our own “truth” and convince ourselves that our actions are not prejudiced or hateful but are done for our “protection” or the protection of those around us.  But when you peel away the layers of it all, it comes down to fear. 

Fear is meant to be useful. It’s only when we give in to fear it can become trouble.

Fear can be overcome.

It does not have to dictate our actions and it does not have to erode away at our character.  In this letter to Timothy, Paul is trying to encourage him to boldly proclaim Jesus to the world.  I don’t know if Timothy actually has a fear about doing this, but since Paul is in jail at the time, maybe he was trying to bolster Timothy’s spirits?  Most of us would feel scared or downhearted if our mentor who we believed in was captured and put in jail.  Paul is trying to encourage Timothy to carry on in his absence.  After a few pleasantries, this is how Paul begins his letter. 

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. So do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord or of me his prisoner. Rather, join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God. He has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, 10 but it has now been revealed through the appearing of our Savior, Christ Jesus, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light through the gospel. 11 And of this gospel I was appointed a herald and an apostle and a teacher. 12 That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet this is no cause for shame, because I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him until that day. – 2 Timothy 1:7-12

We are not a timid people!

At least we weren’t designed that way.  God created us to be bold.  He created us to be strong, so that we could endure when life was tough.  That we would have the strength to hold on to our faith and our beliefs even when the world turned against us.  He wanted us to move beyond our fear – our fear of the unknown, our fear of the unexpected, our fear of rejection – and boldly show the world the love of Christ in tangible ways.  Not just the people who make us feel comfortable.  Jesus said it himself in Luke chapter 6, 32 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked....”

But how often do we do that?

How often are we willing to step outside our comfort zone to do what’s right?  Too often our fears overcome us and make us timid.  We don’t do give as generously as we know we should or even could.  We don’t speak up when we someone gets bullied or when people are gossiping about them behind their back.  We don’t intervene when we see something wrong happening right in front of us and we allow our fear to convince us that it’s too dangerous to get involved or “not our business.”  But that is how evil works – through our fear.  It erodes our character, diminishes who we are supposed to be, and convinces us that the cowardly, cruel, and mean things to do are the right ones.  God did not create us to be a “careful” people.  He taught us to be wary of those things that might cloud our judgment or separate us from God, but God did not create us to be “careful.”  We are supposed to be a bold people.  The true test of a person is not how he or she behaves when things are good, but when things are at their worst.  Do we hold onto our beliefs, or do we give in to fear?  When we give in to fear, like we did after 9/11 and during World War II and to the LGBTQ community, we give in to the evil that is in the world.  If we stand strong in our faith, we honor the Spirit God gave to us and we create a better world. 

There are ways to fight fear![1]

According to Dr. Theo Tsaousides, we first have to respect and understand fear.  Knowing our reactions are sometimes based on fear and not on reality can help us make better choices when fear enters into our lives.  We need to understand where our fear comes from.  Some things we fear are instinctive like giant bears and poisonous snakes.  Sometimes fear comes from our own past experiences.  If you nearly drown in water, you’re probably far more likely to be afraid of swimming than someone who has never gone through that experience.  And sometimes we can stir ourselves up by the stereotypes, assumptions, and prejudices that lie beneath the surface of our minds.  We start projecting what MIGHT happen and the fear of the possible drives us into making poor decisions.  We need to be aware of what Dr. Theo calls “forecasting.”  Just because something is possible, doesn’t mean it’s likely to happen, and we have to learn to differentiate between the likely and the unlikely.[2]  Fear can be conquered, but if we don’t acknowledge our fear, if we don’t work toward overcoming it, we are likely to keep heading down a destructive path.  And that is true not just for our lives, but our community, our society, and our country as well.  We cannot let fear rule us.  And we can be certain God did not create us that way.

Today, I can walk boldly down the detergent aisle.

I even buy the stuff on my own.  That seems to be such a childish thing because it is.  But so is being afraid of people because of the color of their skin.  Or because they are gay.  Or because they eat different foods than you do.  Fear isn’t always rational.  And for us to be the people God created us to be, we have to recognize our fear and grow beyond it.  We cannot allow for fear to dominate our way of thinking.  Fear can be a great tool to warn us, to heighten our senses, but it can also be a “mind-killer” and the “little-death that brings total obliteration.”  There is nothing wrong with being afraid.  The most brave, courageous people in the world are afraid at times like all the rest of us.  The difference is they recognize the fear and don’t let it overwhelm them.  Stand up to fear.  Use it as the tool it was meant to be, but don’t let it use you.  In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.  Amen.


[1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/smashing-the-brainblocks/201512/7-ways-fearless-people-conquer-fear

[2] Dr. Theo actually has “Seven Ways Fearless People Conquer Fear” but we only cover the first few. Definitely encourage you to read the rest.  Very insightful article.

The Easy Way Out

We are wired to take the easy way out.

Sad but true.  It’s a side effect of our autonomic system that protects us from harm.  Think flight or fight responses.  We are wired to favor shortcuts over conscious thought.[1]  And while that might help us when a baseball is being thrown at our head, it is ironically those same systems which hold onto stereotypes, make assumptions, and are resistant to change.  That’s why we feel good when we eat comfort food or wear our favorite shirt or watch The Princess Bride for the 1000th time.  The familiar is easy on our brain.  It brings us comfort.  We don’t have to think so hard.  But if we’re not careful, it may also close us off to new opportunities and new experiences that could make our life even better!  Take for example Star Trek.  I grew up with Kirk, Spock, and McCoy. The Original Series (TOS).  When they announced they were making a NEW show with NEW characters, I vowed not to watch. How dare they?!  Of course it could never be as good as the original.  I didn’t watch the entire first season in protest, despite the praise of the press, the critics, and even fellow Star Trek fans (traitors!).  But eventually, I decided to give it a chance.  And you know what?  It was GREAT!  I LOVED it!  How stupid I felt for not watching it sooner.  I missed out on a whole year of amazing episodes (thank God for reruns).  But we are resistant to change.  Our minds favor comfort, and unless we make a conscious effort to be open to new experiences, we could be missing out on a lot of what the world has to offer. 

Can something like “comfort” be evil?

Comfort is your enemy.”[2]

When we think of evil in the world today, we often come up with the most horrible images we can think of.  Images that rattle our very belief in the world around us.  The Holocaust.  The bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki.  Serial killers like Charles Manson.  Humanity in its ultimate depravity.  But those are the extremes.  Those may be the most vibrant and visual instances of evil in the world, but they are also (thankfully) very rare.  Instead, we need to remember there is evil is around us every single day and if we aren’t careful, if we aren’t deliberate, we could be willful participants in it.  Comfort is one of the ways evil works in and through us.  It might seem weird to think of comfort as an agent of evil, but have you ever been so snug under the sheets you just didn’t want to get up? That nice warm feeling of being in just the right spot all cuddled up with your favorite blanket around you?  It feels so safe and so happy that you don’t want anything to change.  And that’s how the devil sucks you in.  He comes to us in our comfort and says, “You don’t want things to change, do you? It’s all nice and cozy exactly how it is.  We should make sure it stays that way.”  You get lulled into believing that’s true, that it would be the worst thing in the world to change things up, to do something a bit differently.  And you end up in the same rut you’ve always been in. 

Even when the alternative is BETTER, we often are blinded by our comfort.

That’s what happens to the young man in our passage today.  Leading up to this passage, Jesus has been healing and teaching throughout the region.  The Pharisees confront him on the topic of divorce and Jesus has to correct the disciples who are shooing away the children from approaching him.  Then this rich young man comes up to him and asks him the key to eternal life.  And this is what he says. 

16 Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?”

17 “Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.”

18 “Which ones?” he inquired.

Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, 19 honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”

20 “All these I have kept,” the young man said. “What do I still lack?”

21 Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

22 When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.

23 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” – Matthew 19:16-24

Familiarity breeds comfort and comfort is the enemy of progress.

The problem for the rich, young man isn’t money.

It’s comfort.  When Jesus says it’s hard for a rich person to enter the kingdom of heaven, it’s not because being rich is evil or bad.  It’s because having wealth makes you comfortable and it’s hard for us to leave a life of comfort.  We’re wired to stick with what works.  By all accounts, if we can accept his word as truth, the young man is a pretty good guy by our standards.  He keeps all the commandments.  He honors his parents.  He loves his neighbor.  Pretty good guy.  But then Jesus challenges him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.”  And the guy walks away sad, because it would mean giving up the life he is used to living.  Familiarity breeds comfort and comfort is the enemy of progress. 

Why change what works?

That’s the reason people are so fond of the saying, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”  But if that were the case, we’d still be using horses for transportation.  We’d all be fluent in Morse code.  Our houses would be near the river so we could do our laundry every day.  Most of us would agree life is better now than it was fifty years ago and better still from fifty years before that.  Not only do we have modern conveniences like cars and telephones and washing machines, but Black people are no longer 3/5ths of a person, women are allowed to vote, and children are protected from unfair labor practices.  Progress not only makes our lives better but our world better, too.  To be sure, not everything we label as “progress” is actually progress, and we’re far from perfect, but overall, the world becomes a better place when we step out of our comfort zone and embrace what is possible. 

This tendency toward comfort is dangerous for the church, too.

It’s one of the reasons why churches are shrinking and closing.  We are unwilling to embrace ideas that take us out of our comfort zone.  But as the world changes, we need to change with it.  While the mission and the message stay the same, the way we transmit and deliver it should adapt to the world we live in.  Imagine if we were literally delivering the message of God by Pony Express while the world is transmitting in 5G. That’s the danger of staying in our comfort zone.  But it happens all the time.  One of my friends found this out pretty quickly.  He was the pastor of a small and at one time thriving church.  They now inhabited a building far too big for the size of the congregation.  But my friend is a person who has a passion for outreach and always has an eye for opportunities.  He loves trying new and innovative ideas to bring people to Christ, but one of his parishioners complained.  This person came up to my friend, his pastor, and literally said he didn’t want the church to grow.  He liked it the way it was, and any new people would just mess it up.  I wish this was an isolated incident, but it isn’t.  Ask any pastor and they will have a story like this in their pocket.  For me, it happened after giving a message about the possibilities of outreach.  This guy came up to me afterward and asked how big I would want the church to grow, and I responded, “I guess as big as God wants it to grow.”  And he responded, “I hope it doesn’t grow too big.”  And he wasn’t a bad guy.  Quite the opposite.  A devoted Christian, always thinking of others, willing to give of his time, talent, and gifts.  What he was saying in his own way was he was comfortable with the way things were and didn’t want that to change.  And while I completely understand not wanting to lose that feeling, I hope we trust enough in God to know the difference between our discomfort and our disobedience and that we would choose the first over the second

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline – 2 Timothy 1:7

Psychologically and biologically there are many ways to explain this phenomenon.

But the important thing to know is we can overcome it if we choose to.  By intention and discernment, we can put aside our tendency toward comfort and do what is best – for ourselves, for our community, and for the Kingdom of God.  Intention – to do something with purpose by keeping our minds open to new opportunities; and discernment – to carefully examine our feelings when we resist.  Otherwise, we may miss out on opportunities that can make our lives so much better – like watching Star Trek: The Next Generation.  God has in store for you amazing opportunities if only we have the bravery to step forward in faith and embrace it.  “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline (2 Timothy 1:7).”  Dare to live a life of discomfort; to boldly go where no one has gone before!


[1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/nicolelipkin/2022/10/25/our-brains-want-to-be-lazy-heres-how-to-win-the-battle/

[2] https://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-robinson/comfort-hazardous-to-health_b_957788.html